There is an old saying "Into Every life some rain
must fall", and it is unfortunately true, but where do you turn when it
happens?
Often it is harder to ask for help than to try and find the answer for
yourself so I started reading.
Many of the 'SELF HELP' web pages I found were written by someone who wanted to sell their cure or service. They were very narrow in their topics. Those that professed to be about helping yourself, primarily concentrated on psychology or other such ideas. The lengths I had to go before finding any helpful suggestions was staggering, and needed a lot of luck. That gave me the idea for starting this site.
On this site we aim to help reduce the amount of time
spent looking for that needle in the haystack.
We do not intend to provide cures for all ill's and we do not make or support any claims of
cures. We are not medical professionals nor are we in anyway qualified to make judgments
on claimed results. If someone says it worked for them, then we will
believe that, but we will not confirm it as fact or give any endorsements to say
it will work for you. If you like the sound of something and wish to take it
further, that is up to you as an individual.
We ask for contributions to a topic or a suggestion for a new topic and are happy to take them from anyone.
The aim of the site is to help and assist those of us who
are dealing with the problems life throws at us, and we all have found some way
or another to deal with something in our lives. It is that knowledge this site
wishes to tap into.
We are not asking anyone to tell there whole life story or
name names, just pass on things that you think may be useful to someone else in
what could be a similar situation. Just as you may do when someone you know
turns to you for advice.
It is an attempt to provide a
free, no fee, self help advice resource.
Anyone can read an article on the topic they choose with no cookies being sent
and no tracking at all of what they read. It is therefore a totally anonymous way to find help
when you need it without the embarrassment of having to talk to someone face to
face first.
It is hoped that it will provide a guide to anyone who
needs or feel they need help dealing with something in their life. It may also
reduce the amount of time spent trying things or ideas that are not right for
them as individuals.
We are not seeking to be guru's, we will never have all
the answers, but the experience of others may help narrow the search for the
answer to someone's problems. So be part of it, and bring a little Sun back into
someone else's day, it may even put a smile on your face for a while too! 
If you wish to add to the body of accumulated information on any
item, please
note the following. All contributions will be vetted, and may be edited
in relation to our standards, no selling, no slander and no promises to be made.
Any contribution, that passes, will be included along with recognition of the contributor,
i.e. the name you give will be included at the bottom of your
contribution.
If you would like to contribute please click here.
Please complete as many of the fields you feel comfortable with when sending your contribution.
Thank you
John.